you will see all the shortcomings of yourself

I said to my readers more than once: "We want to love ourselves, love their own people will be better life." But until today I slowly realized that "love yourself" is really a very difficult thing, Because whether you love others or love yourself, are not for no reason.

We love someone else, probably because the other looks good, good character, talent, wisdom, etc., we have to love ourselves, in fact, need some reason. A person can really know how to love themselves, may need to go through a long and difficult process of growth, to find themselves, know themselves, accept themselves, and finally to release themselves. This process is not so simple, not according to the book that only need to do what they want to do things OK.

I often think, who would not want to love yourself, most people are confused do not know how to love yourself.

Zhang Ailing had a very famous "because of the understanding, so compassion", the meaning of this sentence is actually saying, "Because know, to compassion." I always think this sentence on their own is also useful, you really Understand yourself, will know what is good for their own good.

In your own process, you will see all the shortcomings of yourself, cowardly, selfish, greedy, irritable and even stupid, when you need to be responsible for one thing, you can do nothing, can not blame anyone, you will Know that the self is actually heavy, and sometimes even let yourself dislike and despise. But you still do not know how to do in the end can be better, you are full of confused the future, even the master Andy Warhol also said he wanted to hire a boss, so that someone can tell him What should I do every day?

Thus, the real "love yourself" is not an easy task. "Love their own" three words, not million gold oil, on any place are useful.

You can not be against a bad enough to say that you do not know how to love yourself, he may tell you, I love myself, ah, I love to say anything to say what, I love what to do Things, off others Pishi things. Is he self-loving? He is only narcissistic, as long as he is enough blind, it can do their own brain residual powder life.

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